Dear You

13th September 2010

I spent all day Saturday looking for a particular piece I wrote on September 11th, 2001.

I couldn’t find it, but in the search I found all my old journals and other writing that goes back pretty far.

Some things are the same.  A lot is different.  I want to give that kid/younger twenty-something a hug, and tell her to stop worrying.  We’re not in Back to the Future, so I can’t.

But I can do this:

Dear you,

Relax.  Things will get better.  Your view will change.  Look out the window and savour what you see right now, because that view will change, too.  And you’ll miss it.  Yes, you will.  Wave to the cows.

Now close your book and call your Nana.  Hug your Gramps.  Sit by Grandma’s tree even more than you do.  There will be a time soon this is all you’ll want to do, but you won’t be able to.  Do it now.

Take more pictures and less bullshit.  He’s not that into you.

Yes, your braces will come off, eventually.  You will learn to like your teeth, eventually.  No, having your wisdom teeth out will not make you dumb.  Enjoy this time, because it really won’t last forever.

Go to Uni and stay there.  But please do keep all those poems in the drawer.  Do not leave all your work til the last minute.  Consider that Honours Philosophy offer.  Have as much fun as you will and then have more.

Be a coffee snob.  Be a music snob.  Do not listen to radio call-in shows at 4 o’clock in the morning.  Please don’t use your CDs as coasters.

Dry your hair so it doesn’t freeze on the way to class.  Well, let it go the once, so you’ll have the memory.  Take better notes when you get to class.  Light the candles in your room, but keep writing in the dark.

Send your writing away.  Don’t waste it on the wrong people though, they’re not worth it.  Some people are worth it.  Some people are.

Don’t change.

Those wishes on stars will come true.  Yes, they will.  The third star on the left will be particularly useful.  Songs will come true, too.  Sing the happy ones.

Lighten up.  Have fun.

Now get off the damn computer.

Love, as ever,


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  • Reply DB York 14th September 2010 at 12:09 am

    Baby, this made me cry today. Love you just as you are.



    • Reply LKD 14th September 2010 at 2:54 pm

      …cheesecake? 🙂

  • Reply Aunt Nancy 14th September 2010 at 12:21 pm

    I save everything too, can’t always find what I want, and will look back at things, pictures drive me crazy, because I don’t look like I did years ago, I have Uncle Don who says, never look back! and remember my mother saying, “saving all this stuff, will only make you cry”, and it does, however I can also find a few smiles .

    • Reply LKD 14th September 2010 at 2:56 pm

      It’s worth it for the smiles. 🙂

  • Reply santadeer 21st September 2010 at 3:13 pm

    “Take more pictures and less bullshit”. W-O-W and am off to get my camera fixed. Thank you for this unintended shove 🙂

    • Reply LKD 23rd September 2010 at 11:29 am

      No problem! I look forward to seeing what photos you take with that fixed camera, if you feel like sharing them on your blog!

  • Reply Rosie 21st September 2010 at 7:48 pm

    I just wanted to say thank you for sharing this on your blog. I was sitting in my Environmental Justice class when I came across your blog. It reminded me of a friend of mine who always says that we have to take care of our younger self that each person has to protect within. It also inspired to write my own. Keep writing 🙂

    • Reply LKD 23rd September 2010 at 11:34 am

      Hi Rosie,

      Thanks for your comment, and thanks for reading! Glad you’re going to write your own! Mine has helped me.

      Hope school is going well for you, sounds like an interesting course!

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